tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281029652011-12-14T21:41:40.898-05:00life_adventurerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10971236984105181554noreply@blogger.comBlogger21100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28102965.post-1152647114057037152006-07-11T15:18:00.000-04:002006-07-11T15:45:14.066-04:00ok ok, as a service to my many male, heterosexual readers, here's my 2 cents on how to attract the woman of your dreams. after you manage to get her out on a first date.<br /><br />here's what <u>NOT</u> to do<br /><br />1. try to be someone you are not. like i always say, if you cant be who you are in front of this girl, and have to pretend to be someone else( like her ex bf) that's bad news. BUT, if she makes you want to be a better person, like the way you want yourself to improve, then go ahead! in my relationship with Andrew, he just makes me want to become a better person, for myself. For him.<br /><br />2. Don't be cheap. It doesn't mean you have to bring her to a fancy restaurant, or buy her expensive gifts. It just means to work within your means. If the girl is a gold digger, and you have no gold for her to dig, it's time for you to either (a) find some gold or (b) find another girl ( which is probably easier)<br /><br />3. Scratch the horrible table manners. Nothing grosses a girl more than someone who has chilli slabs on his front teeth, or seeing what he is eating. Seafood yes. SEEfood. NOOOOOOOOO!<br /><br />4. Please. At least wear a clean shirt, and brush your teeth. What are you? A caveman? Show the girl some proper respect. Think about it. Would you like the woman of your dreams to appear in a soup stained top and offensive breath? No, right? As the saying goes, do unto people what you want them to do unto you.<br /><br />Righty, now you know what not to do, look out for part 2 for what you should do.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/28102965-115264711405703715?l=growing-together-relationship.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>life_adventurerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10971236984105181554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28102965.post-1152564238649677902006-07-10T13:08:00.000-04:002006-07-14T16:51:25.710-04:00People always ask me, should i chase after love? or should i stay put and wait for it to come?<br /><br />Proactive or not?<br /><br />They did say, love doesn't wait.<br /><br />My 2 cents worth?<br /><br />Stop chasing after it. Love, well..it's like the night before you go on the first date . Time just seem to crawl so slowly. WHen u want it to move fast. And the moment you fall asleep, the all important next moment has arrived. WHen you least expect it.<br /><br />Moral of the story.<br /><br />It's all a matter of relativity. In the meanwhile, focus on yourself instead. Work on being the person you have always wanted to be, so that when the 'right' moment comes, you are your best self!<br /><br />SO, What happens when u think you meet the right person?<br /><br />Be proactive. That's when u pick up all ur feathers and start strutting your stuff! ;)<br /><br />Saw the movie Failure to Launch a couple of days ago and they offered really interesting advice on attracting the person of your dreams. ( just like something right out of Sex and the city)<br /><br />3 handy tips:<br /><br />1. Be an expert in one thing (preferably something that the person likes) Nothing is more attractive than a person who digs the stuff u dig.<br /><br />2. Make his close friends like you. Oh don't doubt the power of friends. Friends are very important. Remember buying the bag u didn't really like but your friends told u u look great with it? Get the drift? The same applies for both sexes. Believe it or not. Once you gain his close friends approval, you are in the loop.<br /><br />3. Let him teach you something. This appeals to the primative psyche of man and strokes the ego. Plus, it's always great to learn something new everyday. No loss on your side.<br /><br />If all these sounds too schemish for you. Just be yourself. If the person cant like you the way you are, he's NOT worth it!<br /><br />Good Luck and let me know!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/28102965-115256423864967790?l=growing-together-relationship.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>life_adventurerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10971236984105181554noreply@blogger.com0